Butterfly Club
A Teen Girl's Society
Claim Your Superpower
What is a teen girl's society?
The Butterfly Club is a Teen Girl's Society. It is a safe place for any teen girl to go to ask questions and receive TRUTH. It is a place where mentors exist to help girls navigate their ever-changing landscape and narrative.
The club is about being safe; safe to ask hard questions; safe to hear hard answers; safe to be YOU. What is the easiest way to get through middle or high school? Ask someone who is already successfully doing it!
This teen girl's society is about sisterhood and helping each other adjust our crowns now and then. You are never as big as when you reach down to help another sister stand back up.
We have a weekly podcast - Wednesdays at 4:00pm (PST). The recordings you can listen to on this website.
🔮 Intuition – Your Inner Compass
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The Inner Compass: You sense truth before it’s ever spoken, you read emotional currents like weather patterns, and you will learn to trust your gut even when the world doubts you.
💥 Spark of Defiance – Your Attitude
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The Spark of Defiance: You will come to understand, harness, and tame your amazing attitude and you will realize that your boldness isn’t rebellion—it’s clarity. You will use this superpower to challenge injustice, question norms, make the ‘un-normal, normal’, and use it to radiate self-worth even when it’s inconvenient
🧠 Pattern Seer: Neurodivergent Brilliance
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Pattern Seer: Whether it’s ADHD, autistic, or just wired differently, you will see connections others miss and if you happen to have one of these sub-superpowers, you will be able to solve some complicated problems sideways.
💬 Heart Translator: Empathic Communication
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Heart Translator: You are able to ‘feel’ what it’s like to walk a mile in someone else’s shoes! You can decode silence, hear the pain behind sarcasm, and speak in ways that make others feel seen. You just ‘get it’ and others will feel your connection when you reach out to adjust their crown for them!
🎨 World Connector – An Infrastructure Creator - Creative Alchemy
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World Connector – An Infrastructure Creator: Through art, writing, fashion, music, or new and unique thought processes, you are able to transform emotions into expression and chaos into beauty.
🛡️ The Shield of Self: Boundary Magic
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Shield of Self: You learn how to say “no” with grace and power, protecting your energy, emotions, and physical self. You will teach others how to treat you, and by your example, you will help others to help themselves.
🌀 A Storm Dancer: Emotional Resilience
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Storm Dancer: You don’t avoid hard feelings—you ride them, learn from them, and emerge stronger, wiser, and more compassionate. You build that compassion into relationships that will endure lifetimes.
🧬 A Code Switcher: Identity Shapeshifting
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Code Switcher: You have the power to navigate different worlds—home, school, work, religion, and culture—with fluidity, adapting, learning, and embracing without losing your core, who you are.
🧭 Justice Radar: Moral Navigation
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Justice Radar: You are able to spot hypocrisy, B.S., mistruths, and injustice others sometimes miss. You will be able to call out unfairness, and lead with values even when it’s unpopular. You will help those with small voices be heard and seen.
🕊️ A Wound Healer: Forgiveness & Grace
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Wound Healer: You will learn to forgive without forgetting; you will offer compassion without self-erasure – a rare and radical superpower.
Adolescence is when we:
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learn who we are
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sense and learn what is important to us
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begin to figure out where we fit in the world
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decipher what we want from life, or at least part of the picture
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we have a strong sense of our emerging self and talents
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have the highest highs and the lowest lows
Adolescence is when we:
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learn who we are
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sense and learn what is important to us
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begin to figure out where we fit in the world
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decipher what we want from life, or at least part of the picture
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we have a strong sense of our emerging self and talents
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have the highest highs and the lowest lows
Adolescence is when we:
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learn who we are
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sense and learn what is important to us
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begin to figure out where we fit in the world
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decipher what we want from life, or at least part of the picture
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we have a strong sense of our emerging self and talents
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have the highest highs and the lowest lows
My Darling Teen Girls
You are NORMAL if . . . .
Adolescence . . . .
Adolescence is when we:
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learn who we are
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sense and learn what is important to us
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begin to figure out where we fit in the world
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decipher what we want from life, or at least part of the picture
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we have a strong sense of our emerging self and talents
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have the highest highs and the lowest lows
ALL adolescents have (all NORMAL):
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creeping self doubts (think their body or hair sucks!)
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questions about ourselves and everything else
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unending curiosity to try new things
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emerging political ideas and thoughts
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a heightened sense of what is right and what is wrong
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social confusion and fears
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constant changes – sometimes hour-to-hour
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the strongest feelings and passion